My mum Rene (Alice Irene Flitney née Harding) died in 1999. When my brother, sister and I went through her things we found an envelope full of old newspaper clippings and other bits and pieces. We looked through the papers and put the envelope away, but those yellowing pieces of paper keep whispering of half-forgotten times and places. Places like Butlers Cross, Stoke Mandeville, Aylesbury, West Wycombe, Little Kimble, Wendover, Ellesborough, Southcourt and Princes Risborough.

Wednesday 3 June 2015

Game On

Two of my favourite childhood pastimes were Hopscotch and conkers but at school I would usually be found in the middle of a gang of kids playing British Bulldog a game more or less banned from playgrounds now. 

Hopscotch via

At home we played card games like Whist, Cribbage and New Market competing for matchsticks or pennies. Another favourite was roulette. Probably not the games you would expect children to play, but we loved them, and I'm pretty sure it didn't do my brother, sister or me any harm. Sadly, I don’t have any photographs, partly because we didn't take many back then but also because game playing was taken very seriously.  When I met my future husband back in 1966 he had little choice but to join in. He still talks about being paid on a Friday afternoon and fleeced by his future in-laws on a Friday evening! It may not be far from the truth. We still played for pennies, but it could mount up and wages of about £3.00 a week didn't go far. He obviously didn't mind too much as we are still together forty-five years later.

In this photograph taken in 1972, my husband Terry and my dad are playing table football a much gentler but no less competitive game.


Mum helpfully captioned most of the photographs in this album. We always spent at least one day with my sister and her family over Christmas. Their house was just perfect, large enough for plenty of fun but small enough to feel warm and cosy. My sister has written more about the house here

My sister's children Christmas 1972
From the top Jacqueline, Paula, James and Michael Wood.

Peekaboo in the park 1976.  
Me doing the peeking and our son Steven running to hide.

I was an agent for Freemans catalogues back then, and this photo of Steven was chosen for the February edition of their 'Happy Families' Competition. It was published with the caption “It ain't arf cold, Mum", but Steven is warm and cosy in his Freemans coat and bobble hat.



A boy and his dog - probably the best games of all...

Steven and Kelly - May 1983.

Another family favourite

Steven and I getting in a twist while mum awaits a turn. Dad suffered from Rheumatoid arthritis so Twister was a bit beyond him, but he never said no to a game of cards.

A sign of things to come? Well yes and no.


 This is Steven, Terry and I playing a slightly larger version of table football with Steven's son Kip.


The victors!


One final photograph before I put the games away. This is Steven's younger son Tristan contemplating his next move. I can't remember what we were playing, but this is a favourite picture of mine because it sums up Tristan's competitive nature and sense of fun. 


The boys are grown up now, but it's lovely to have these memories to look back on.




This is my contribution to Sepia Saturday No. 282 Chess : Games : Musicians. Chess was one game we didn't play.  I'm sure we had a board and the pieces but probably none of us could understand the rules.

See who else is playing over at Sepia Saturday




30 comments:

  1. Hello Barbara, another fascinating read and delightful pictures of you all having fun. Definitely provokes a chuckle.

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    1. Hello John, chuckles gratefully received. Thanks so much for taking the time to take a look. Barbara.

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  2. We were very much a board game-playing family, and it did get pretty competitive, but the closest we got to betting was for matchsticks.

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    1. Hello Brett, competitive is the name of the game in my experience. My late father hated losing at anything, and my husband is even worse! Thanks for your visit, Barbara.

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  3. Wonderful times recalled here. Do you still play games when you get together? I can see why the peek-a-boo photo won a prize.

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    1. Tristan (our youngest grandson) enjoys a game of monopoly, so we play that occasionally. Card games seem to be a thing of the past, which is a shame because I enjoy them. Christmas gatherings seem to revolve around the TV now – I wish we could go back to the ‘old days.’

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  4. I loved hopscotch as a kid too. We had the Twister game -- just a pile of giggles!

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  5. Hopscotch, jump rope (loved doubles), tag, kickball, dodge ball, basketball, softball - & later in Jr. High (now usually called middle school) tetherball & four square. That was at school. At home we had all kinds of board games - my most favorite was Monopoly. Thanks for the memories & that little dog, Kelly, was adorable. A beagle? I'm a cat person myself, but beagles are sure cute.

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    1. I forgot all about skipping (jump rope?) that was always so much fun! You are absolutely right about Kelly. He was a beagle through and through. Strong, independent and with a mind of his own but his number-one priority was to protect Steven. If my husband ever tried to tell Steven off for some misdemeanour, Kelly would have none of it. He would take up a stance between the two of them; teeth bared and a low grumble emanating from somewhere deep inside. He was a little dog with a fierce sense of justice!

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  6. Twister! Goodness, I'd forgotten about that one -- a big beyond me now, I think, even with my new hip. I can remember parties during which we spread four or five Twister mats on the floor and played incredible games...thanks for the remembering!

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    1. Hi Deb, probably a bit beyond me now too – although I might give it a (very careful) go! The ‘Twister Parties’ sound like a lot of fun, we've only ever played with one mat.

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  7. You certainly have quite a few different games photos! I think I might have a similar one of Twister players hidden away somewhere - always a party favourite.

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    1. Hi Jo, I wish there were photos of the games we played back in the 50s. There are plenty of photos of what we ate, Christmas trees, decorations and so on but not the games we played. We built some wonderful camps and tree house back then but there is not a single photo.

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  8. I too can remember a childhood made up of games (and many of those you mention) I suppose these days there are more video games than board games, but no doubt, in time, people will get just as nostalgic about them. Some lovely old photos. Thanks for sharing them.

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    1. Hello Alan, I’m glad you enjoyed the photos. I certainly enjoyed sharing them.

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  9. We still play a lot of card and board games when my family gets together. My granddaughter said last night she can't wait to get to town and beat us.

    I never played twister. Your husband looks like he's ahead in the top photo with your dad.

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    1. Terry certainly looks happier than my dad, so I think you are probably right. Twister is a lot of fun, but you do need to be fairly flexible, so I don’t think I will be playing it again any time soon.

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  10. Our family never played any types of games when we were growing up (beyond the occasional card game). When my SIL tried to get us all to play board games at Christmas it didn't always turn out so well. The most memorable one was possibly the last, when my mother insisted on blurting out answers to every Trivial Pursuit question no matter whose turn. (a bit of drinking may have been involved!)

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    1. Hello Violet S, thanks for coming over. I laughed when I read about your mother and the Trivial Pursuit – that is one game I really can’t stand, mostly because I don’t know many of the answers. Maybe I need to drink a couple of large G&Ts next time it might improve my general knowledge. :-)

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  11. LOVED Twister...so much fun,..elastics, jacks or knucklebones...and a weird Australian boardgame called Squatter (Aussie version of Monopoly)

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    1. I love the sound of the Aussie version of Monopoly – Squatter is such a brilliant name! I must ask my son if he’s played it next time I visit him in Adelaide.

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  12. You have a great collection of 'games' photos. I'll have to get my camera out next time there's a game on the go.

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    1. That sounds like a good idea to me Lorraine. Funny to think of a as yet unborn member of your family sharing them on the next version of Sepia Saturday! :-)

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  13. Talk about touching.
    So many wonderful memories. I played many of the same games but dad LOVED chess and I never wanted to play chess. He won trophies for playing chess and indoctrinated my husband, also a Steven, into long drawn out chess tournaments. LOL

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    1. Hello Eve, how lovely of you to visit me here! These fathers in law have a lot to answer for!

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  14. Thanks for memories being stimulated by your photos...I don't have game photos either. But the best laugh I had was at Twister, which was silly fun...though I couldn't get many other folks to play it. Maybe my friends were not limber.

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    1. Hi Barbara, I really enjoy sharing the memories but what a shame we didn’t know each other a few years ago we could have played Twister together – not sure my hips could cope with it now! Thank you for visiting and commenting, Barbara. .

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  15. Wonderful shared memories. Hopscotch was also a fave of mine. I used to draw it on the driveway and happily play it by myself if no one was interested. It was all a matter of having the best chain to throw to the squares so it would land just right and not on the lines.

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    1. My sister and I used to draw out the squares on the front path. Mum hated it and would hastily scrub it away as soon as our backs were turned! She much preferred it when played about the farm or climbed trees – anything but chalking on paths.

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